(Tren) Women around the world are carrying out a terrible practice which not only leaves them in a great amount of pain, but at high risk of HIV.
‘Dry sex’ involves women reducing moisture in their vaginas in order to make intercourse more pleasurable for men.
Say what? I will NOT be condoning in this practice that’s for sure!
This can can lead to cuts, sores and inflammation in the vagina, and increases the chance of a condom breaking, journalist Wendy Syfret reports for VICE.com.
Those factors greatly increase the chance of the women contracting sexually transmitted diseases and HIV.
Women in many other countries are putting their health at risk by carrying out this practice known as ‘dry sex’. The practice involves drying out the vagina using substances from sand to pulverized rock to bleach, in order to make sex more pleasurable for men.
It is said to have came about out of a cultural belief that men find sex more pleasurable if a woman’s vagina is dry, and that men will reject women whose vaginas have been ‘stretched out’ by sex.
I highly doubt “dry sex” is appealing for men…just my opinion though, don’t mind me.
To achieve dryness, women insert, chalk, sand, pulverized rock, herbs, paper or sponges before sex, according to journalist Ms Syfret, who has reported on the practice in South Africa.
They also douse their vaginas in detergents, antiseptics, alcohol and bleach.
Women in Java, Indonesia, even ‘smoke out’ their vaginas by standing over burning herbs, LoveMatters reports.
OUCH!!!
In other areas of Indonesia it is common to insert a cigar-shaped stick made of a plant root.
While World Health Organization consultation papers show global health officials are aware the problem exists, most of the research on it is decades old and there are no broad figures on its prevalence.
A 2009 study looking at how dry sex spreads HIV in Zambian women found knowledge of the practice was widespread.
Around two-thirds of the 812 women polled had used traditional dry sex medicines at some point in their lives, and about half were currently using them.
But a reluctance to discuss sexual health meant the practice was not debated.
The researchers concluded: ‘Most of the available information has been anecdotal, speculative or inadequate – mainly because of cultural reluctance to discuss or investigate personal sexual issues.’
There is also an incorrect cultural belief that if a woman has a partner with a large penis, her vagina will remain permanently ‘stretched’ – and future partners will think she is promiscuous.
The practice is ingrained in culture, passed between generations of women, a researcher said.
The researcher continued: ‘Men aren’t saying to women, “Put Dettol in your vagina”.’
Instead, they insinuate a woman is promiscuous due to the state of her genitalia, she explained.
For women dependent on their boyfriends or husbands, attaining commitment and pleasing them is extremely important.
The idea that pain is normal or acceptable during sex has taken hold, she adds, and most women in South Africa would not think of sexual pleasure as something they necessarily have a right to.
Dr Wasserman said: ‘I’ve been part of a task force with the World Association of Sexual Health, and we’ve launched the declaration of sexual rights – the right to pleasure – and we’ve been really pushing that.
Women are surprised that’s one of their rights.
“We know 33 percent of women have and tolerate painful penetration. That becomes part of what they expect from sex.”
Dr Wasserman has a radio show which attempts to talk about myths about sexual health.
She also hosts seminars for young adults and parents in order to educate people about healthy sexual practices.
‘It’s about educating people and trying to raise awareness,’ she said.
‘There was a drive then to say to women: “Don’t put Dettol in your vagina; don’t dry your vagina out. This is dangerous.” But the conversation hasn’t gotten going, and women are suffering.’
She draws similarities between the practice of dry sex in developing countries and the vaginoplasty operations Western women undergo in order to tighten their vagina.
‘They’re having their own genital mutilation,’ she said of the women who opt for these procedures.
What do you think of this procedure? Crazy right?!
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